- Either he/she might want u gettin hurt knowin the truth as to actually wat happened.. :)
- They might not be given a chance to tell the truth..
- or of course the final one wil be, they don't want u to kno it...
you lied because u wanted to slip out of the consequences rit... wat if there there was no consequences to be met... ??? would u lie in tht case too... obviously not.. but tis one psychological fact is not realized by many..
lets consider a situation supposing one mother gives her son a new lets say parker pen.. nd tht boy loses it in ground tht evenin.. the boy knos pretty well tht his mother's will give him a nic piece of her anger on him... nw wat wil the boy do... :P... well if it was me.. i would hav said...
" some one had stolen my pen ma.. i had kept it in my bag while havin lunch and in the fifth hour it wasnt there, shyam's pen also stolen ma tht same person taken it.... :( " lol... :D why..??? it was because of the consequence, tht the boy might be thrashed by his mother... supposin the boy kno's for sure his mother wont thrash him instead get him a new pen nd would ask him to keep it safe... would he hav lied like the same.. i doubt not... tis is wat i meant by given a chance...
At some point in life we found "lie" to be a key to escape.. nd some use it pretty much excellent like me... :D wat i am sayin here is, if the consequence wouldnt be worse.. nobody would hav the need to ever lie again... so if u dont want anyone lying to u just let them kno... "They wont be gettin into any trouble tellin the truth to you.."
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